Temper Tantrums!

And so the saga continues. I was in tears at work this morning after so much emotional upheaval last night. It was stage 2 from the diagram you see above. The Incident! My husband arrived on Saturday night and the tension has been steadily building! We have been separated for eight months now and he…

If you leave me I will get married!

Thank you to all my fellow bloggers, warrior men and women who are supporting me through my abusive husband’s crazymaking strategies! I am never going back to the madness. He keeps bringing out new tools from his box; victim, aggressor, pleading, begging, crying, insulting, ridiculing, belittling. This morning he brought out a new one and…

Letter to my mother who didn’t protect me.

To put you in context, this week for the first time in my life, I established a boundary with my mother. She wanted to come over and stay with me and I said it wasn’t a good time for me. Incredibly, the night before this happened I had a dream about her. She was holding…