Imagine your inner child waking up to a message that your soul has ached for. My mother usually sends me a weekly text message. This is the extent of her mothering and our relationship. I haven’t seen her in years nor spoken to her on the phone. Today, along with her perfunctory message which always…
I had a really good session yesterday with my counsellor. It was especially good I think because I’ve had a break while she was on holiday. My counsellor was deeply touched by the session too and had tears in her eyes. It was good to walk into that space and see myself again. Yesterday of…
Hi to everyone! I haven’t been on here for a while and haven’t had a chance to read posts and comments as much as I would like to. Being a single mum and working full time in London is proving to be a challenge. The weeks are fast and furious with all I have to…
Dear Ma, I can’t believe its taken me this long to realise how you were the one who saved me. I always knew that you were very very special but I didn’t know just how much of a mother you really were to me. You nurtured me with your warmth and unconditional love and acceptance…
I was more loved and mothered than I believed. I had a mother, but she was just not the woman who gave birth to me. In my counselling session yesterday, we talked a lot about my grandmother and how much she actually mothered me. How much she nurtured, protected and empowered me. She was more…
My counsellor and I have been talking a lot lately about the unmothered child and the resultant wound it creates in a child. What does it really mean to be unmothered? What does it feel like in those dark, hurt places that should have been filled with a mother’s unconditional love and care, acceptance and…
“Please talk to me I miss you,” is the desperate text I received from my mother yesterday. I haven’t spoken to either of my parents in almost two years. I have confronted my mother about the abuse and she says that it couldn’t have happened. She says that she doesn’t remember any of it. My…
There are many ways of interpreting a dream and one can very easily find generic dream interpretations online for every possible dream scenario. I do believe though that these should be taken with a pinch of salt and that the symbols that appear in our dreams are very personal and contextual. When I have a…
How the Unmothered Mother their children, My son came home from school yesterday hungry and exhausted, probably played his heart out in the bus club, so excited to be around other kids. I have to be there for him and give him that warm and loving cushion he needs to get through. I want him…
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